Headlines: Monday (Nov 1)

Of lately, I have been sharing a number of headlines and inserting short snippets of comments as well, and so have been thinking of making this a frequent entry in my blog (since I don’t really want to blog about boring stuff like my dark circles around eyes). I could do the same with my tweets but I don’t really update my tweets on a regularly basis. I think I’d fare better with this but we’ll see how it goes.

»» Perhaps we need to look at how bus operators like this one get their license. =.=

Man behind wheel of ill-fated bus apologises to families
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“Abdul Azeez alleged that safety precautions had been lax, the bus was decrepit and it did not have safety belts. “I’ve been told the company did not subscribe to any group insurance scheme.”

»» Can we consume less and recycle more? Example, instead of buying an item that costs RM10 and trash it after two or three months, we could spend a little bit more on a good quality item and make it last at least a couple of years. The idea of cheap = “if break/broken, then throw la, it’s no big deal” is bad for our envi…ronment because the hidden costs are so much higher than an expensive item.

Garbage disposal a heavy load for the authorities
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KUALA LUMPUR: Residents here produce 2,100 tonnes of garbage per day, 63,000 tonnes per month and 756,000 tonnes per year. The waste is sent to the Bukit Tagar landfill about 50km from the city.

»» Working isn’t the only thing that defines a person who is well past their 50s. When one retires, you can still lead a productive and fulfilling life. Take up some hobbies and spend time discovering yourself again. This a great time for you to be “you” and not depend on your children or an employer to make life fulfilling and rewarding for you.

TODAYonline | Hot News | When elderly need to be realistic …
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Banker Joseph Tan, 54, said: “I may have enough savings to retire but I still feel uncomfortable about retiring before the official retirement age. “It feels like I have some more years but I’m not making full use of it.”

»» Kudos to this girl for disciplining her Rempit sister. Padan muka.

Sister slaps Rempit girl
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GEORGE TOWN: A 16-year-old schoolgirl was slapped several times by her elder sister at the state police contingent headquarters here for being involved in illegal motorcycle racing.

»» Take that Ms Demori (and thank you to whoever you are for writing this)!!!! :)

Many work overtime due to sense of duty
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So perhaps the writer would need to see the world with a bigger perspective rather than making an observation from within a fishbowl. Sweeping remarks are downright insulting and condescending to those who are discharging their duties faithfully outside their normal working hours.

»» Goodgawd, why the heck should I, a little nobody, be jealous of a farking giant co? I have no time for such petty feelings. It’s just that no one has told me why the PM announced this during the Federal Budget is it was a “private” project. Since when is the PM paid to be a private co’s mouthpiece? =.=

Ignore critics and build the tower, PNB told
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“They are probably jealous that PNB has the capability to embark on such a big project that will benefit the country. “I see them as having an agenda because they continued spinning stories, including that it (the project) is a waste of Government’s money,” he told newsmen after opening the Malaysia…

Talking about History.

In his latest attempt to make an impact as Education Minister, Tan Sri Muhyiddin Yassin who is also Deputy Prime Minister announced that History is to be made a compulsory pass subject. For those who are not familiar with the Malaysian examination system, the Minister speaks of the SPM examination, the equivalent of the UK O’ levels. When I took this paper – usually we take it at 17 (Fifth Form) – one had to pass Bahasa Malaysia (Malay Language) in order to obtain a general certificate. A while ago, the Minister spoke of making English a compulsory pass subject. I have yet to see it materialise although I could be wrong. The matter was never brought up again after some weeks of debate and media publicity.

And now the good Ministry/er would like to make History compulsory as well as a core subject in primary schools. While I can’t say that I fully support or oppose this decision, I do feel that the Ministry of Education needs to take a more well-thought out and planned route when making changes on this level. Already we have had too many amendments to our education system in the last ten or so years. This is one area that should not be taken lightly as it deals with the future of the young people who will go on to serve the nation in any and every way possible. If anything, I’d like to implore that the Ministry considers a more new and fresh approach to teaching rather than revamping the structure and making things compulsory in order to get students to learn. What is the point if they have awful teachers? It is merely a short-term solution which may end up backfiring upon us.

When was the last time any of these Ministers did a spot check on a school and attended a class? When was the last time they sat down and listened (not just hear) what students say about textbooks and teachers? Or are they contented with just forming policies in the comfort of their air-conditioned offices, basing their ideas on comments or suggestions from Ministers who have little to no experience teaching (or have last taught years ago)? (A bunch of horse tack, if you ask me.)

A few letters intrigued me – those talking about things like how history has been rewritten from one perspective, others on how teachers need to make it more interesting and so forth. I had my own brief brush with the topic and needless to say, one way that worked for me was deemed “controversial” to my employer but at the end of the day, it got the students to enjoy and more importantly, learn something. That is more important…that they learn.

Dear Editor,

The words written by the author in this letter (link here) have never rung clearer. When I had the pleasure of teaching Sociology a few years ago, I was shocked to discover that a lot of students were historically-challenged (to be politically correct). I had one tell me that the Holocaust occurred in the 1920s and another mention that they didn’t even know what the Holocaust was all about or the big deal about it. It was at that point that I became not just a teacher of sociological theories and ideas but one of history.

I must be clear on one thing – while there are a lot of passionate teachers out there, sometimes we are held back by old school ideas on what is appropriate for use in the classroom and what isn’t.

I used many incidents in world history to expose and teach students about sociological terms and theories such as deviant behaviour, group culture, racism, ageism, social structure and so forth. These included video documentaries and movies. Later, I was approached by my superior who was concerned that by me showing my students such videos and films, I could open up a can of worms and risk incurring complaints from students. I understood her reasons and had to reassure her that it would not be the case as I have had many students approached me telling me about how they have enjoyed the class, that I made these theories more “real” and applicable, and the fact that the wool over their eyes have been lifted. I watch them grow into individuals who love and enjoy learning, who are stimulated into being passionate about knowledge and self-improvement from that knowledge.

I look at them and then at my own journey – my history lessons were always the same. We would read from the textbooks, be tested based on how well we memorized dates and even went to the extent of highlighting huge portions of the textbook in rainbow colours. I was lucky to have a father who loves wartime history and amassed a huge collection of documentaries, ranging from those on WW2 to more general knowledge-based ones like those on the Hajj or the Vatican. Later as an adult, I was lucky to have a partner who was and still is a History buff. His knowledge of French history shocked me to the core. While I had spent a good six years minimum trying to remember and spit out dates with events, he had no problems doing them same with the history of an empire that spans a few hundred years. While I struggled with the names of a handful of Malaysian leaders, he had no problems telling me the order of the kings and presidents of France. This difference boiled down to one fact – he wasn’t schooled in the same manner as I was. It is thanks to people like him and my parents that I have a renewed love for History today.

It is clear – our students step into the learning area filled with the passion and thirst for knowledge. It is up to us educators and parents to keep that flame alive. We should not fear or hide our past mistakes as a race, country, community and group by colouring or silencing them but instead recognize and accept that these mistakes help us grow not just as people but as a community and country.

Headlines: Oct 25-30 (backdated)

»» Ms Demori, can you please provide me with a real life example of a business that has suffered because someone went on maternity leave? Hai, I just don’t understand this woman – keep quoting West this, West that (eg companies have collapsed in the West, economies are not growing because of maternity leave)…geez, there… is more to a business and economy than just women going on maternity leave. While we are at it, can you please go look at the economies of the Scandinavian countries like Sweden where maternity leave is more than 90 days? Economy there is dying is it? Businesses collapsing keh? Last I check, IKEA, Ericcson, Tetra Pak, Electrolux (and others) are doing pretty well, if not okay, these days.

Maternity leave a major strain
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“… I know of some employers in the West who prefer to run their business with the help of family members because employing staff will be too expensive, and will eventually compromise the company’s stability… Unions and NGOs have tilted the balance of benefits far too much in favour of the employ…

»» It’s not all roses when it comes to higher retirement age. What about in countries/areas where unemployment among the young is high and positions are only available when someone retires or leaves? What about wage calculation? The French protest a higher retirement age not because they are lazy but because there are other hidden implications in the long run.

TODAYonline | Singapore | Live longer, work longer?
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SINGAPORE – Even before laws to re-employ workers for three years beyond 62 are in place,…

»» I wonder whose pockets got fatter with the money from this. *sigh*

Money paid but projects yet to be completed
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A TOTAL of RM753,723 was paid for 67 acquisitions involving 31 projects without the items being received or the jobs done under the First Economic Stimulus Package, said the Auditor-General’s Report 2009.

»» WTH. You mean to tell me that you had no guidelines in place when it comes to dispensing funds? Talk about corruption occuring in plain sight.

Health Ministry rapped over payment to private hospital
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…In its reply, the ministry said it approved the RM7mil based on feedback from the technical division. It said the ministry is in the midst of drafting a set of clear guidelines to be submitted to the Finance Ministry for approval…

»» Our mothers, MILs and confinement ladies plus hospitals AND even new mums need to understand that preventing mothers from caring for their babies especially at night and preventing things like rooming-in on the pretext of rest does more harm than good in the long run. Foresight is needed.

Study: Lack of breastfeeding costs lives, billions of dollars – CNN.com
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If most new moms would breastfeed their babies for the first six months of life, it would save nearly 1,000 lives and billions of dollars each year, according to a new study published Monday in the journal Pediatrics.

»» Unbelievable. =.= (Next we’ll have people tell us that male enhancement products must be a staple!)

TODAYonline | Singapore | ‘Daddy’ raped minor to ‘protect her from being cheated by men’
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SINGAPORE – Under the pretext that he wanted to prevent the girl from being cheated by men, he…

»» This is why you should not simply take antibiotics for any darn bloody thing – seen doc give out antibiotics for flu, food poisoning, etc before even making sure if there is a real need for it (note that antibiotics only kills bacteria and does nothing to viruses)!

Superbug detected in woman
www.thestar.com.my
GUA MUSANG: A superbug which is resistant to antibiotics has been detected in a 24-year-old woman, the first known case in Malaysia, said Health Minister Datuk Seri Dr Liow Tiong Lai.

»» Our reasons are simple: If we work in M’sia, the savings will be less due to the low wage vs high cost and forex. Then there is the matter of work culture vs work productivity, red tape as well as the quality of the education our children will receive. Does the TC need any more reasons?

It may not be just money
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Many of those working abroad have heard of these promises before and some did return but found the red tape just too much for them to bear that after a while they went back. So the task of the Talent Corporation is also to convince the Malaysians living and working abroad that things are different n…

»» From Mdm Demori again. Needless to say, I had a good laugh.

theSun
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“Free mingling of the sexes is certainly not advisable because it can affect people in an adverse manner both physically and emotionally. Extra-marital sex can lead to a host of diseases…Ultimately, good sex is a commitment, like marriage and like life. People who opt for free mingling of the sexe…

»» This is why M’sians who marry abroad ought to register their marriage with the M’sian HC or embassy within the time frame given. Have lost count of the no of people who ask me if it’s okay if they don’t register their marriage – excuses given as things like “too much of a hassle, too problematic, etc”. Hello, you got m…arried – isn’t that already a lot???? What’s a little bit more paperwork?

Approval for citizenship under Home Ministry’s jurisdiction, says rep
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”Since Kah Weng was born before his parents registered their marriage, then he is actually a non-citizen,” she said, adding that the parents had failed to comply with Section 31 of the Law Reform (Marriage and Divorce) Act 1976. She said under the act, couples who got married abroad must register th…

Dating = impending parenthood

When the Premier of Malaysia announced that maternity leave would be stretched from 60 to 90 days for government servants, one particular letter made it to the papers a few days later. This individual highlighted some examples of discrimination against singletons in the workforce and while I can sympathize, I wasn’t all that impressed when that same person asked for an equivalent number of leave for dating (s/he made it sound as if one was shopping around for a hot tub cover)!

… If pregnant women can get maternity leave, why can’t the Government then also give 60-day “dating leave” for single people? …

Evidently, there are people out there who think that maternity leave is used by women to lounge around, shake their legs…all while getting paid. Never mind that it is always hardly the case, that the same single women later go on to marry and feel that they have been “singled out” (don’t mind the pun) as pregnant women or married women with young children.

Honestly, is it a pregnant woman’s fault when a singleton ends up having to pick up the pieces during maternity leave? When that same singleton is asked to handle more than they can take without due compensation? In fact, it isn’t. Pregnant women face problems of their own at the workplace. Many companies try to get away without having to pay for maternity leave by overworking pregnant women in hopes that they would leave before they can claim maternity leave. Others make life miserable for such a woman by loading her with work or impossible assignments upon her return from maternity leave. I know of many such cases in Singapore and I am sure that there are some in Malaysia as well. It was only recently, after the announcement of extended maternity leave, that women started coming forward with stories of companies mistreating pregnant employees.

Can we still say that single employees are right to pin the blame on their pregnant colleagues? I hope not. I shared my thoughts on the matter with the Star and the letter appeared today. Below is the full, unedited version.

The letter “Don’t single us out only when in need” left me feeling quite disappointed and sad to know that in this day and age, there are people who are still ignorant of why maternity leave exists.

Maternity leave is important as women need time to cope with breastfeeding, the care of a newborn, adjusting both physically and emotionally, and so forth. Some women have more difficult pregnancies than others with problems like morning sickness, gestational diabetes, bleeding, so forth. Carrying a baby – a human being – to full term is not an easy task or for the faint of heart. I find it shocking that an equation to dating is drawn! For a lot of women out there, can we truly say that our dating days are the same as having a baby? I doubt so.

If single people or married individuals are being singled out to handle tasks unfairly, they should take it up with their management and the Ministry of Manpower, not blame other married colleagues. Poor leave coverage is clearly a management problem and if someone has to shoulder the extra burden, the compensation should be made to that person. Again this falls under the jurisdiction and care of the company. For far too long, many Malaysian companies have forced individuals to work overtime or take on additional work without pay or time off. What is the Ministry doing about such organizations?

By complaining about these benefits that supposedly are for a group of people, the author run the risk of it backfiring. What if in the future, this person goes on to have children? Would they appreciate being forced to work away from home constantly, being forced to return to work immediately after having a child?

One thing is obvious – this single person definitely have no idea what it takes to have a child, much less, maintain a family.

Think before you pop that pill.

For years, we have brushed aside warnings of the existence and evolution of superbugs just as quickly as we brush aside people who hand out aj madison coupons and flyers by the road. We ignore them because we think they don’t matter or it’s not real enough for us.

The proof is now in the writing – they *do* exist and it’s thanks to our own paranoid attitude-actions towards medication. People who contribute to this range from the doctors who are quick to prescribe broad spectrum antibiotics for things that don’t require antibiotics like the common cold (a virus actually) to people who fail to complete their antibiotic prescriptions.

A superbug which is resistant to antibiotics has been detected in a 24-year-old woman, the first known case in Malaysia, said Health Minister Datuk Seri Liow Tiong Lai.

Liow said the superbug, known scientifically as the NDM-1 (New Delhi metallo-lactamase-1), was not a threat to the patient and she was receiving regular attention at the hospital.

Identified in India and Pakistan, it had reportedly caused the death of a Belgian man and infected several people from Britain, Australia and the United States who travelled to the two countries for surgery.

The Belgian was reportedly infected by the bacteria after being hospitalised in Pakistan for a leg injury suffered in a car accident.

Full story here.

One thing needs to be clarified though. The NDM-1 is an gene NOT a bacteria. If a bacteria mutates and ends up carrying this gene, it becomes immune to almost all antibiotics. What happens is that when a bacteria with this gene comes into contact with an antibiotic, it’ll produce an enzyme that stops the antibiotic from doing its job.

And that’s not all.

The NDM-1 gene can jump across bacteria strains easily and it’s worrying – imagine encountering a bacteria that is already resistant to one antibiotic in the market and then have this gene hop onto the same bacteria. You end up with a potentially infectious disease that has no known treatment at all.

So how is it not a threat to us? Gosh. Typical response really.

One way we can do our part is by being more careful with the medication we put into our mouths. Question our doctors whenever they prescribe antibiotics. I was given antibiotics for a common cold that I had a few weeks ago. Did I take it? No. Why? Because I know that common colds are caused by viruses NOT a bacterial strain, hence there is no need for any antibiotics. Not only it is a waste but it actually kills good bacteria in the body (women take note) resulting in higher chances of you contracting things like a yeast infection.

Thoughts on the 100-storey Warisan Merdeka tower

The latest talked-about topic these days in Malaysia is the proposal for the construction of a 100-storey tower in the heart of KL city, near the historical Merdeka Stadium.

Unveiled during the 2011 budget last Friday, it has since sparked debate on the purpose, the cost and the necessity of another skyscrape. Many deemed this to be another white elephant, a way for Najib to add a notch onto his bedpost, just as his predecessor, Mahathir did with the set-up of Cyberjaya, Putrajaya and other mega projects.

Quoted here,

“Mr Najib said that such projects exemplify the spirit of ‘Malaysia Boleh’ or ‘Malaysia Can!’, a national campaign conceived by former premier Mahathir Mohamad, a huge advocate of mega projects.”

When faced with backlash from both opposition parties as well as most members of the public, Najib went on to add that

“…the rationale for the Warisan Merdeka tower was similar to the one behind the iconic twin Petronas Towers, in that it would serve as a symbol of a modern and developed Malaysia.

He stressed that the project would also have a “multiplier effect” on the economy and help drive it forward, in addition to providing an attractive commercial centre for Bumiputera and non-Bumiputera businesses alike.

“This project is not a waste (of resources) but will bring benefit,” he said.

Najib dismissed out-of-hand Pakatan Rakyat’s (PR) criticisms that such expenditure was “irresponsible” by pointing out how well-received predecessor Tun Dr Mahathir Mohamad’s megaprojects had been despite opposition attacks.

“When Tun Dr Mahathir built the Penang Bridge, they (the opposition) attacked it too, but now the people of Penang themselves are asking for a second bridge,” he said, adding that the former premier’s decision to build the Petronas Towers had faced similar problems.”

See full story here.

There are some things I’d like to put forth (and would like some answers, if possible) – if only he goes around reading blogs and especially mine (would he have any reason to?) – to the good Premier of Malaysia. Sometimes I do wonder…does he think that projects like this are as simple and clear-cut as finding out what diet pills work best?
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A husband’s eulogy.

I wonder if any of us will have the privilege and honour of having these same words spoken of us, where we are praised for our role as a mother and wife. I speak of Singapore’s Minister Mentor Lee Kuen Yew’s eulogy at his wife’s wake last week. Although some may see his speech and words as a political move, I’d rather think differently and choose instead to look at a man who had just lost his life partner of 63 years, who has been through thick and thin with her and well, someone whose love has gone on.

Her mind remained clear but her voice became weaker. When I kissed her on her cheek, she told me not to come too close to her in case I caught her pneumonia.

I assured her that the doctors did not think that was likely because I was active. When given some peaches in hospital, she asked the maid to take one home for my lunch. I was at the centre of her life.

Her last wish she shared with me was to enjoin our children to have our ashes placed together, as we were in life.

Every night she would wait for me to sit by her to tell her of my day’s activities and to read her favourite poems.

Then she would sleep.

I have precious memories of our 63 years together. Without her, I would be a different man, with a different life. She devoted herself to me and our children. She was always there when I needed her. She has lived a life full of warmth and meaning.

In this day and age of microchips, rackmounts and other facets of technology, in the wake of increasing divorce rates, a love that can span over six decades and one that stays true to the words “till death do us part”, this surely is something worth ruminating over.

Work-life balance deficit

It has been six months since I started work and I must say that I’m still not quite sold on the idea. Oh, I love the extra cash I get near the end of the month and I love the time out but I don’t love squeezing quality time into two hours during the weekday and all weekend while juggling housechores, reviving an online store and well, making time for myself and the other half. Sometimes things get really tiring that I find myself reaching for an extra pick-me-up in the form of supplements and a nap (it puts a damper on my weight loss plan and I’m not keen on taking pills, even the diet pill that works).

But I don’t have it as bad as Nil. While my company doesn’t believe in overtime and forbids it (they even resort to locking up the building after a certain time during the day as well as the weekends and getting locked means the top guns will be notified when they need to let someone out), his is the fairly typical Asian firm. He has been working overtime for too long – in fact, I have lost count of how long. To make matters worse, he is not paid overtime unlike in Switzerland, not even in the form of time off. No matter what people say about Singaporean companies, a good many are no different than Malaysian ones. A lot of people I know will tell you that working overtime is encouraged and even expected in some industries. Failure to stay back after office hours on a regular basis means that you’re not hardworking or putting enough effort. Sad to say, even the older generation think that working overtime is perfectly normal.

I remember listening to some Singaporean DJs a few months back discussing productivity in relations to the time spend at the office and the Singaporean work culture. One DJ actually mentioned that he believes that working overtime will contribute to a nation’s growth. But at whose and what expense? I believe he wasn’t looking very far ahead when he made that statement on national radio. If only he knew that most of the time, people work overtime because of bad management – themselves (surfing the Net during office hours, sleeping, etc) or the company (under-staffing, taking in too many projects, profit over people, etc).

When a single person works overtime, it eats into the time that s/he spends on themselves, building and maintaining relationships, be it parent-child, friendship or romantic. Of course there is the matter of self-rejuvenation. We all need some time to destress, enjoy another part of our lives and well, grow in the process. When one spends 10 to 12 hours at the office, there is hardly any time to rest, let alone grow as a person. It is no wonder that many people I know think that live revolves around work, sleep, food and the opposite sex, and it shows. How many of us have the time to explore hobbies like writing, photography, sewing, and so forth? That is just growth in skills, but what about inner growth? How can we have time to self-reflect, seek focus in life and build character when we are more busy working, resting and well, living day to day. We are surviving…not thriving.

When a married person works overtime, it affects their partnership. There is only so much a spouse can take and whether we want to admit it or not, intimacy is affected by the amount of time and effort you put into it. We get married because we want to share facets of our lives with someone but how can we do it when that person isn’t around most of the time? When all the time we have with them is just a hurried kiss in the morning and a dream of a warm body next to us? Is it any wonder why the rate of divorce is climbing in a culture that once saw divorce as taboo? Why many young couples are complaining of the lack in intimacy – I am not talking about sex but the coming together of two minds – so early into their marriage? Why a growing number of people have fertility issues that are related to stress?

When a parent works overtime, it affects their parental role and relationship with their child. Many people – I have observed – excuse this conveniently to “your child will know you no matter what”. While blood may be thicker than water, just knowing is not the same as knowing. A positive, respectful relationship is built on the effort we pour into our children’s lives. In this age where the purchasing power is stronger than ever, many parents make the mistake in assuming that money can buy love and ultimately a relationship. To a child, the most expensive and wanted commodity is not a toy but time given freely from a parent. I have seen this before in Eva and she is not even two years old. You can give her a comb, a toy, anything but after five minutes, she crawls or drunkenly stumbles over and demands for some time (and naturally attention).

Is she any different from us adults? Human beings are social and self-reflective creatures. When there is an imbalance in any aspect of our lives, it affects not just us but the people around us, our communities and ultimately our society. A culture and community that takes the time to step back and allow its people to grow, better themselves and build better relationship profits in the long run in every aspect, from how it grooms its future citizens to economic growth…more than a culture that is only concerned with short-term so-called profits.

Now if only some companies here could look that far ahead…