Comments on: First dates. http://thescarfer.net/blog/2005/09/02/first-dates/ knit. spin. weave. sew. bake. cook. hike. think. live. Mon, 07 May 2012 06:59:43 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Kyels http://thescarfer.net/blog/2005/09/02/first-dates/comment-page-1/#comment-18 Kyels Sat, 03 Sep 2005 06:14:18 +0000 http://thescarfer.net/?p=38#comment-18 A simple person. I've never been in love before so I don't know what it feels like. But I would want to date someone who has manners, great personality, knows when to be serious and when to be playful. Also, he gotta be sensitive towards my feelings. Oh yah, he cannot control me for who am I though. That's for now I guess. A bit doh. Haha. It's not wrong to be picky but sometimes we gotta appreciate what we have and she should have been grateful that the guy cooked for her on their first date. Hehe. My 2 cents. Cheers! A simple person. I’ve never been in love before so I don’t know what it feels like. But I would want to date someone who has manners, great personality, knows when to be serious and when to be playful. Also, he gotta be sensitive towards my feelings. Oh yah, he cannot control me for who am I though.

That’s for now I guess. A bit doh. Haha.

It’s not wrong to be picky but sometimes we gotta appreciate what we have and she should have been grateful that the guy cooked for her on their first date. Hehe. My 2 cents.

Cheers!

]]> By: Mei http://thescarfer.net/blog/2005/09/02/first-dates/comment-page-1/#comment-17 Mei Sat, 03 Sep 2005 00:14:46 +0000 http://thescarfer.net/?p=38#comment-17 Cyber-red: I think she was expecting to be swept away but things like that don't come in the first instances much or less ever. Now, me thinks she isn't materialistic...just guilty of being unrealistic. Deepsy: Maybe she could be picky for a reason? :) Kyels: She may be unrealistic but could it be wrong to be a little picky over who to date and what characteristics you desire in a partner? Rom: You got sunflowers? I got roses...and I was ten. ~_~ Why don't I get any other flowers? Cyber-red: I think she was expecting to be swept away but things like that don’t come in the first instances much or less ever. Now, me thinks she isn’t materialistic…just guilty of being unrealistic.

Deepsy: Maybe she could be picky for a reason? :)

Kyels: She may be unrealistic but could it be wrong to be a little picky over who to date and what characteristics you desire in a partner?

Rom: You got sunflowers? I got roses…and I was ten. ~_~ Why don’t I get any other flowers?

]]> By: romantic http://thescarfer.net/blog/2005/09/02/first-dates/comment-page-1/#comment-16 romantic Fri, 02 Sep 2005 18:29:43 +0000 http://thescarfer.net/?p=38#comment-16 I think it was sweet of the guy to put so much effort into cooking etc.. When she mentioned the flowers....my first thought was...eeuw...he took some flowers from a cemetery LOL ( reading too many creepy books) I got sunflowers .. and he was six LOL I think it was sweet of the guy to put so much effort into cooking etc.. When she mentioned the flowers….my first thought was…eeuw…he took some flowers from a cemetery LOL ( reading too many creepy books) I got sunflowers .. and he was six LOL

]]> By: Kyels http://thescarfer.net/blog/2005/09/02/first-dates/comment-page-1/#comment-15 Kyels Fri, 02 Sep 2005 12:18:12 +0000 http://thescarfer.net/?p=38#comment-15 Actually the girl should appreciate what the guy did for her on their first date. I know that we tend to expect a lot on our first dates but what he did was so sweet and I would be happy if I was in her shoes although I've spend quite sometime grooming myself before the date. Moreover, I think we expect too much because humans have endless of demands and their wish lists are ever growing longer. It's time for us to be contented and grateful just like that girl because she managed to secure herself a first date. She's too choosy.. Heh. :P Cheers! Actually the girl should appreciate what the guy did for her on their first date. I know that we tend to expect a lot on our first dates but what he did was so sweet and I would be happy if I was in her shoes although I’ve spend quite sometime grooming myself before the date.

Moreover, I think we expect too much because humans have endless of demands and their wish lists are ever growing longer.

It’s time for us to be contented and grateful just like that girl because she managed to secure herself a first date. She’s too choosy.. Heh. :P

Cheers!

]]> By: deepsy http://thescarfer.net/blog/2005/09/02/first-dates/comment-page-1/#comment-14 deepsy Fri, 02 Sep 2005 09:25:48 +0000 http://thescarfer.net/?p=38#comment-14 i'd be lucky if i got a date also la ... that girl is like sooo erhhggh... so picky and choosy :-s i’d be lucky if i got a date also la … that girl is like sooo erhhggh… so picky and choosy :-s

]]> By: cyber-red http://thescarfer.net/blog/2005/09/02/first-dates/comment-page-1/#comment-11 cyber-red Fri, 02 Sep 2005 06:26:51 +0000 http://thescarfer.net/?p=38#comment-11 Too much expectations spoil the broth... or in this case.. was she expecting candlelight dinner, ala gifts as well? tsk tsk.. too materialistic see. At least the guy was sweet enough to make an effort like you said, no? such men don't come by so easily nowadays.. Too much expectations spoil the broth… or in this case.. was she expecting candlelight dinner, ala gifts as well?

tsk tsk.. too materialistic see. At least the guy was sweet enough to make an effort like you said, no?

such men don’t come by so easily nowadays..

]]> By: Mei http://thescarfer.net/blog/2005/09/02/first-dates/comment-page-1/#comment-10 Mei Fri, 02 Sep 2005 06:19:49 +0000 http://thescarfer.net/?p=38#comment-10 MS: Tongsui??? Do you remember what kind you had? :p Oh, thankies for dropping by! ^_^ Centerpide: That seriously stunned me. Can you imagined if the guy hadn't showed up with flowers at all??? She'd probably start grumbling about it as well. Fashionasia: You could be right, y'know coz I was also thinking the same thing to myself. MS: Tongsui??? Do you remember what kind you had? :p Oh, thankies for dropping by! ^_^

Centerpide: That seriously stunned me. Can you imagined if the guy hadn’t showed up with flowers at all??? She’d probably start grumbling about it as well.

Fashionasia: You could be right, y’know coz I was also thinking the same thing to myself.

]]> By: Fashionasia http://thescarfer.net/blog/2005/09/02/first-dates/comment-page-1/#comment-9 Fashionasia Fri, 02 Sep 2005 06:15:38 +0000 http://thescarfer.net/?p=38#comment-9 i think their relationship wouldnt lasts.... i think so because the 2 of them have different characters. I wouldnt say the guy did badly, perhaps to another women, he did everything just right, perfect first date maybe. He probably put alot of thought into planning the ultimate first date. i think their relationship wouldnt lasts….
i think so because the 2 of them have different characters. I wouldnt say the guy did badly, perhaps to another women, he did everything just right, perfect first date maybe. He probably put alot of thought into planning the ultimate first date.

]]> By: centerpide http://thescarfer.net/blog/2005/09/02/first-dates/comment-page-1/#comment-8 centerpide Fri, 02 Sep 2005 04:31:15 +0000 http://thescarfer.net/?p=38#comment-8 I applaud the guy because first of all he shows up with flowers (what i didn't get was what did she mean by "not the kind you get at the florist - so did he pick them up himself or was it the fake ones?) And home cooked meal, aww the fact that he would actually go through all that effort, that's amazing you know! Who cares about a fancy restaurant or the expensive roses, those things can be bought with $$$.... spending time with a such a sweet person...PRICELESS! I applaud the guy because first of all he shows up with flowers (what i didn’t get was what did she mean by “not the kind you get at the florist – so did he pick them up himself or was it the fake ones?)

And home cooked meal, aww the fact that he would actually go through all that effort, that’s amazing you know!

Who cares about a fancy restaurant or the expensive roses, those things can be bought with $$$…. spending time with a such a sweet person…PRICELESS!

]]> By: minishorts http://thescarfer.net/blog/2005/09/02/first-dates/comment-page-1/#comment-7 minishorts Fri, 02 Sep 2005 02:52:00 +0000 http://thescarfer.net/?p=38#comment-7 i thought that guy who turned up at the door ... that kind of date was a REALLY sweet one... my first date with eric was at the tongsui stall. half an hour only. beat that. and i still think it was sweet. i thought that guy who turned up at the door … that kind of date was a REALLY sweet one…

my first date with eric was at the tongsui stall. half an hour only. beat that. and i still think it was sweet.

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