It went something along the lines of the following (not word for word but roughly – you’ll get the idea):

“I don’t care if this is about ‘asking her out of concern’. I don’t like how you are attempting to ingratiate yourself into my life. I do not want to be your friend, neither do I want to talk to you. I know all your bad points and I don’t like you. I don’t want to get crass so I’ll just be blunt. I don’t want to tell you anything about my family, my friends, my life, etc… stop trying to get back into my life. Stay out of my life.”

Of course there was more but then again, I’m no recorder – and besides, I didn’t bother saving the ‘chatlog’ – it wasn’t really a chatlog coz she messaged all that to me while I was away and then, blocked me. Talk about one-sided communication.

UPDATE: I got this from a friend (the full text of what she wrote to me):

“oh, and by the way, i would like you to remove me from your friends list. (I didnt say this earlier because I was preoccupied.) I don’t like you. I don’t want you knowing about my life. I don’t like the thought of having you as my friend. You can be friends with my friends all you like, just don’t be one of mine. You know me well enough to know that certain grudges, I hold for a long time, if not forever. I will always remember your faults, and I will always end up disliking you in general.

I don’t care if this is a general friendly ‘concerned-about-your-life’ thing, I don’t want you knowing about me, my life, my family, my friends, my everything. I don’t like how you’re trying to ingratiate yourself into my life. It’s not happening, you will never be a confidante of mine, and as much as I humour you, you will never be a friend. Stop trying to get back into my life. I don’t know how much more plain I can get after this.

I’ll respect you enough to not read your journal, I can’t understand why you can’t respect me enough to not read mine.”

So yeah, I asked someone CLOSE to pass her a message and as like him, he forgot all about it. I made no issue out of it because…well, I felt that things should be left the way it was.

So fast forward to a few weeks later.

I put up a post to this thread (on an international forum) entitled ‘Favourite Stores and Brands’:

Here’s a list of SOME of the places I go to…usually I aim for the shopping mall that holds the most stores I like to visit but for the sake of this thread…

Clothes – most are local brands in M’sia
Rest*Relax
Seed
U2
Elle
MNG (aka Mango in Singapore)
Espirit
Reject Store
Colours – the stuff there is so hippish yet lovely…

Shoes
Vincci
Nose

Earrings
Petaling Street wholesale stores
Amcorp Mall’s flee market
1-U (which is a shopping mall)
Axxezz

That was this morning. I check the thread again this evening and what do I find? A post from HER with something she quoted from my post:

Originally Posted by chatton (that’s me)
Colours – the stuff there is so hippish yet lovely…

Oh man, tell me about it. I bought this lovely hip-scarf thing which jingles. Can’t move without making a sound.

It’s pretty exorbitant too

Does it make any sense to you? It certainly doesn’t to me, especially after what she wrote. Nil thinks she’s useless – doesn’t know what she wants. I think she’s just showing off to the rest of the board who is adamant that she’s this sweet, nubile young thing.

Hmmm…since she did write “tell me about it”…I have a few LAST choiced words to tell her.

You know what? I don’t want to fucking tell you anything – ANYTHING, you read, you stupid four-eyed, mata sepet bitch. And do you know why I’m not telling you anything? Hell, you should – after accusing me of INGRATIATING into your life and all that jazz. It’s because YOU asked me not to talk to you.

Also I DO NOT need to know what you bought, especially some jingly hip-scarf thing that can’t stop making noises when you move – wow, what an attention whore you must be. You seriously are that starved of attention, huh? I don’t want to know how much either coz as far as I’m concerned, you’re still spending Daddy’s money and that doesn’t meaning squat to me but one thing: SPOILT.SELFISH.BRAT.

Maybe you don’t know it but I don’t ingratiate myself into anyone‘s life. I make friends and you not wanting to be a friend? Well, that is of no loss whatsoever to me – actually here I was thinking you NEEDED some more friends since you have always complained that you have few friends or that people don’t understand you.

Yeah, we all know that the world owes you heaps. Never mind that it doesn’t revolve around you alone. But since you asked me to leave you alone, I thought it would be only right of me to honour that request.

So honour your goddamn fucking word and leave me the fuck alone as well. You want to quote someone from/in the board? Sure, just don’t quote me, or post anything to me OR even write stuff like “tell me about it”.

By the way, do you know what I can’t respect you enough to not read your journal? Simple. Because respect is earned and you haven’t done anything to earn an ounce from me. BUT just so you know, I haven’t read your journal in ages. So stop flattering yourself.

Frankly, I’m sick and tired of entertaining your childish tantrums.